Most of the relationships in our life do not really last. This can be because of the circumstances of our life they do not make it possible for the people to continue any longer or simply due to the human nature to grow further from one another.
The sad part of the divorce is that children may get affected for they do not understand yet this kind of happening and they are still young to comprehend it. And indeed, the life of your kids will now change a lot different form their usual life brought by the divorce. Obviously, you will be curious as to how and what could this mean towards your children after you will decide for the divorce.
First thing you have to do is to be civil with your partner about your situation even if you have something to argue about. Do not allow that your temper is going to flare in front of your children. If you are really in the verge of your anger and you want to argue, then it is best not to argue in front of them and find some place where you will not be heard by your children arguing.
Arguing in front may mean that you are fighting with each other as kids may interpret it in this way and they do not know better unless you are going to explain it them. This may probably cause them to panic and this may be a harsh experience for them emotionally to see that their parents are fighting in front of them. That is why you need to be calm when you are already bursting out in anger and you are in front of your child or children.
Lastly, you have to let the school be informed. OF course, you do not want that the education of the kids will be affected because of your divorce process or what you are going through. It is sad because there are kids in the school that might bully the child and this is hard to the child to handle. The teachers might be of great help for your current situation and let them know about what you ate undergoing so that they can attend to your child during free time and see to it that he or she is doing fine. Sometimes, your child may be left out and they do not know whom they can talk, that is why the teacher may be of great help once you notify the school of your current situation.